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Building a Support System: You Don't Have to Go It Alone
In our exploration of trauma, we’ve touched on the importance of understanding and acknowledging our experiences. But what about support?...
May 41 min read


Complicated Mourning: When Grief Lingers
When grief doesn’t ease with time, it may be complicated mourning. Learn the signs and how therapy can help you move through it.
Apr 223 min read


Grief vs. Depression: Understanding the Difference
Grief and depression can look similar, but they aren’t the same. Learn how to tell the difference—and why it matters.
Apr 153 min read


Navigating Your Inner World: The Six F’s of Internal Family Systems (IFS)
Discover the Six F’s of IFS therapy and learn how to connect with your inner parts using curiosity, compassion, and calm.
Apr 63 min read


Does Your Inner Critic Need A Theme Song?
Let’s talk about that voice in your head—you know, the one that whispers (or yells), “You’re not good enough,”
Mar 312 min read


Political Anxiety? You’re Not Alone
Feeling anxious about history repeating itself? You're not alone. Here’s how to cope, take action, and find hope in uncertain times.
Mar 242 min read


Caring for Your Inner Exiles: The Most Sensitive Parts of You
Your most tender parts—the ones carrying heartbreak, rejection, and loneliness—aren’t burdens; they’re Exiles longing for care.
Mar 33 min read


Overt vs. Covert TIP Skills – How to Calm Down in Public Without Anyone Noticing
Ever find yourself in need of a quick emotional reset, but you're not sure how to do it without attracting attention and looking like a weirdo? Enter the world of Overt vs. Covert TIP skills—your secret weapons for calming down in any situation!
Overt TIP Skills are the more obvious strategies, while Covert TIP Skills are your undercover tactics when you need to fly under the radar. Here's how you can use both.
Jan 212 min read
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Overwhelmed? Try These Quick-Action Calming Hacks
Ever feel like your emotions are like trying to steer a car on an icy road with no brakes?
Enter TIP skills—a quick pit stop to recalibrate your body chemistry and bring your emotions back into balance.
These Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT) techniques are for those moments when, as T. Swift sings, "YOU NEED TO CALM DOWN!"
TIP is like first aid for emotional overload.
Jan 133 min read


Is Your “Unwind Time” Winding You Up?
What we do to relax matters, especially when we’re trying to heal from anxiety or trauma.
Sometimes, our downtime habits might inadvertently keep our stress response on high alert. If this resonates, it might be time to refresh your approach to relaxation as we enter into 2025 with a creative exercise inspired by Lisa Ferentz, LICSW, from her book Treating Self-Destructive Behaviors in Trauma Survivors.
Dec 30, 20242 min read


Oh. My. God. Becky, look at her... DBT Skills.
Getting silly about DBT Skills
Nov 25, 20242 min read


Worry Better Before Bed: Try This 15-Minute Hack!
We’ve all been there—lying in bed, staring at the ceiling while our minds go into overdrive, cycling through every worry imaginable. It’s...
Nov 12, 20242 min read


🦡 Playing Possum? Let’s Talk About the Art of Doing... Nothing 🦡
Hey there, Professional People-Pleasers (and Fellow Possums), Ever feel like life has you so beat that all you want to do is curl up...
Oct 23, 20243 min read


Name It to Tame It: Using IFS Therapy to Manage Emotions
Reading the news can be upsetting. Regardless of your politics, it's important to learn strategies on how to stay globally informed and emotionally regulated. We might get dysregulated when we read the news. What matters is what we do with it. What matters is how we take care of ourselves afterwards so we can respond instead of react.
Jul 22, 20243 min read
Videos






Audio Meditations
5-Minute Breathing SpaceHannah Kanter, LICSW
00:00 / 05:04
5-Minute Beach Getaway Guided ImageryHannah Kanter, LICSW
00:00 / 04:54
Belly BreathingHannah Kanter, LICSW
00:00 / 09:26
Compass BreathingHannah Kanter, LICSW
00:00 / 21:30
The Success Pattern Guided ImageryHannah Kanter, LICSW
00:00 / 18:18
Sensational Gratitude - EarthHannah Kanter, LICSW
00:00 / 20:16
Simple Body Scan - 30 minutesHannah Kanter, LICSW
00:00 / 30:35
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